How to Text Someone You Dont Know

Basicly i accept met this guy a few times through mutual friends, i want to get to know him better merely he currently lives far away so the soonest i will be able to see him is october, therefore i want to get to know him past text. What type things tin i say in a text? How can i get-go a chat cause information technology seems a fleck ho-hum starting with hi,how are you?what take yous been up to?

Cheers for any help

Yous don't. You're a daughter. You wait for him to text. That'due south like the number 1 rule in the Dating for Girls guidebook isn't it? lol

(Original post by Anonymous)
Basicly i take met this guy a few times through mutual friends, i desire to get to know him ameliorate but he currently lives far abroad so the soonest i will be able to see him is oct, therefore i want to get to know him past text. What type things can i say in a text? How can i start a conversation cause it seems a flake boring starting with howdy,how are you?what take you lot been up to?

Thanks for any help

do you want to know him better because you lot fancy him and desire to go out with him or exercise y'all only want to be friends?
it is kinda bad-mannered texting at first, but after a while it wont be. in your beginning text, there isnt much else you can say to him other than what yous said above. unless you both have something you can reminesce most that happened in the past and want to bring that upward once more.

(Original post by Bearding)
Basicly i have met this guy a few times through mutual friends, i want to get to know him better but he currently lives far abroad and so the soonest i volition be able to see him is october, therefore i want to get to know him by text. What type things tin i say in a text? How can i start a chat cause it seems a bit ho-hum starting with hullo,how are y'all?what have you been up to?

Thanks for any help

Get-go stage is always slightly awkward, as you don't want to come beyond bad, make sure you ask what they have been up to? Then the texting convo can flow from in that location.
Good luck

I have lied to start a conversation similar this before...i text a load of gibberish and so 15 minutes later text saying

'sorry my friend stole my telephone lol...how are you anyhow? hope it didn't confuse you likewise much '

I know...i'k a bad person...but i was nervous and ran out of ideas...and i confessed a few weeks later when nosotros were texting more often funny thing is information technology worked.

(Original post by christykai1049)
do y'all want to know him improve because yous fancy him and want to go out with him or do yous just want to be friends?
information technology is kinda awkward texting at first, but subsequently a while information technology wont be. in your get-go text, in that location isnt much else you can say to him other than what you said above. unless you both have something you tin can reminesce nigh that happened in the past and want to bring that up again.

Thank you and i dont know really i suppose i do fancy him a bit simply merely get to know each other better and run across what happens then. Unfortunatly there isnt really anything to reminesce on nonetheless otherwise that would help as its often how i start texts with my other friends. Looks similar i will have to stick to the standard texts for now.

(Original post by ijb57611)
I have lied to start a conversation like this before...i text a load of gibberish and so fifteen minutes later text saying

'sorry my friend stole my telephone lol...how are you anyhow? promise it didn't confuse you lot likewise much '

I know...i'm a bad person...but i was nervous and ran out of ideas...and i confessed a few weeks subsequently when nosotros were texting more oftentimes funny thing is information technology worked.

Haha, that sounds a practiced plan just i accept tryed a similar matter with someone else pretending i had sent it to the wrong number only that completly backfired. What did you say in the text?

(Original mail service by Bearding)
Thanks and i dont know really i suppose i do fancy him a chip merely simply become to know each other better and run across what happens so. Unfortunatly there isnt really anything to reminesce on yet otherwise that would help equally its often how i start texts with my other friends. Looks like i volition have to stick to the standard texts for now.

or maybe add him facebook...comment on his statuses.

Proficient on you Just greet him and ask him how he is. I've been in this possition a few times when I've met someone really interesting and desire to know more, best thing to do is just get talking. Seize with teeth the bullet, e'er the best mode! Ignore the empty social traditions like women having to wait for men to initiate interest or whatever that *******due south is.

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